No More Mr Nice Guy

As Nice Guys stop seeking approval and stop trying to hide their perceived flaws, they open a door to start getting what they really want in love and life.

By learning to approve of themselves, they begin to radiate a life energy and charisma that draws people to them.

Life is not smooth. Human existence is by nature chaotic.

In attempt to cope with the uncertainty of their chaotic childhood, Nice Guys developed a belief system that if they could just do everything right, then everything would go right in their lives.

Surrender allows these men to see life as a laboratory for learning, growth, and creativity.

They realize that if their lives are a reaction to Dad, then Dad is still in control.

In relationships, a life-and-death struggle is played out to balance their fear of vulnerability with their fear of isolation.

We tend to be attracted to people who have some of the worst traits of both of our parents.

Control is an illusion. Let go; let life happen.

Stop blaming. Victims never succeed.